Hi. So me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. We live together and have a cat and it’s super wonderful! But Like every couple we have our issues, So recently I got a job offer that would be incredible and I would definitely be stupid to turn that kind of $ down! But I have the same offer at a local place just for ALOT less money. Now my boyfriend supports me in everything I do, and totally wants me to go for it! But I will rarely see him. And honestly in my head I wonder if it would be possible that if I take the job I will be gone for four months, that it may help strengthen our relationship, help me do some growing, and find ourselves again especially if We wanna spend the rest of our lives together. But I find myself also worried that maybe it’s not a great idea because we have never done long distance before? But we are very strong and love eachother, I trust him with everything! I just want to make the right decision, but I don’t want to put negative stress on our relationship! Because he means more to me then money! And I’m really just trying to work this out in my head, but finding it hard. So I’m coming to the great inter webs to gather thoughts from others on if space in relationships as long as 4 months is a good thing? I know space is always a good thing! BUT ITS 4 months being away from the loml
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