There are 2 girls in my friend group that I like. We'll called them Sarah and Jane.
Sarah is the girl I've known for a year and crushed on for 7 months. I've never had feelings like I have for her before and we have this weird bond/connection where we're not exactly super close best friends, nor are we dating, but we're like a "safe space" for each other when we're with our friend group. If jokes are going a little too far for either of us, we'll make eye contact and make sure the other is okay - that sort of thing. We spend a lot of time together at university but she's very mysterious and keeps her out-of-uni life totally seperate except for the bits of info she wants me to know. I've always had a gut feeling that she had feelings for me but she had a boyfriend for quite a while and she's only recently become single. I'm not sure if she's waiting to be ready for a relationship, or if she just doesn't see me that way - but she knows I like her and she hasn't acted on it.
Jane is the strong, independant girl who doesn't really rely on anyone but for some reason she seems to be submissive to me and when we hang out in groups, if she's had a drink she's really touchy feely and playful with me. She'll find excuses to touch my arm, sit on me, lean on me, whatever. All of her sober instincts that tell her to play it cool are gone and it seems really obviously that she likes me in some way. However, when she's sober she definitely plays it cool and leaves a few hours between her texts to me and won't initiate very often unless she's sending me memes or whatever. I don't have feelings for her as strong as I have for Sarah but they could definitely become real and a hypothetical functional relationship with her is way more imaginable than the one I'd have with Sarah. We have much more in common and we're closer in age so we're on the same level.
I have no guarantee that either of these girls like me but I have a gut feeling. I can wait around and hope that Sarah eventually sees me in a romantic light or I can attempt to pursue Jane. Which would you guys pick?
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