Title says it all: I am male, in my early 30s, still a virgin, and pretty much clueless when it comes to dating. I managed to chat up a few girls at parties / in bars / in clubs and have been on a date or two – but without any success. In the last few years, I had kind of given up, focused on other things and just lived my life. But I wanna give dating another try.
So what are the problems? I am average looking. Nothing which brings me lots of matches on Tinder, but nothing which should hold me back either. I am in a pretty dead end position career-wise. This wasn’t a problem when I was in my 20s and in university, but I suppose many women will take financial security more serious when dating 30 year olds. So I guess the most important problem is that I have low emotional intelligence and I am probably on the spectrum. I have difficulties reading others, I don’t know how other people perceive me, I am clueless about my own body language, I have problems remembering names and faces, and in conversations, I oftentimes don’t know what to say.
How would you adress the problem? How can I improve my intersocial and physical attractiveness? Is there still hope?
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