I met a dancer (21F) that I have visited 3x at the club. I know her real name, what city she is from, what city she lives in now, basically she's told me her whole lifes story. 1st time we met she started opening up to me and talking to me. 2nd she was telling me even more and spent the whole night beside me (even kind of blowing off 3 dudes trying to chat her up). She wanted to make sure I stayed and wanted me to walk her out as well. 3rd night we were again inseparable and she really opened up to me, telling me things she's been through, hopes, dreams, fears, everything. She even wanted me and me alone to walk her out (which they wouldn't allow, apparently a strapping (28F) 5' 9" lesbian woman can't fend off a couple of guys eye roll though I'm happy to know they want her to stay safe). Anyways, I do spend money in the club as I respect that she is at work and that's where I'm visiting her. We have A LOT of the same interests and this last time she was constantly touching me, like laying her head on me, touching my arms, leaning into me because she was cold. She told me that outside of the club she is painfully shy and kinda a loner. We haven't hung out outside of the club because of her being so shy, but it feels so hot and cold in the club vs outside of it. I have both her personal and professional accounts on snap but we actually talk and stuff on her personal one. She's the first to view all my stories and normally responds to my messages <20 min after sending them at the long end of the time line, unless she's asleep. I have my own shyness, social anxiety, and over think things. She told me via snap she is interested in me but she's painfully shy and wants to take things slow as fast scares her. I'm completely fine with slow but it's like night and day between in the club and outside of it and part of me is worried I'm just getting played... sorry this is so long but could really use help as I really do like her and think she's stunning inside and out even if she doesn't believe it, she's so very worth it. Thanks in advance!
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