I‘m 21F and I‘ve never dated, nor did I have any real crushes before. And I’m really desperate for advice since I just don‘t know how it feels to be romantically attracted to someone.
I‘ve gotten really close to my friend (21M) during the last few years. We get along greatly and I generally consider him to be a very important friend to me. He never showed any signs that he might like me until tonight. We spent a nice chill evening together watching sth when he suddenly started playing with my hair and being all touchy with me. I didn‘t tell him to stop nor did I feel very uncomfortable, but I also don‘t think I enjoyed it as much as I... would have if I liked him back? I‘m honestly unsure about my feelings for him. I left without us having talked about this.
Thing is, I did think about entering a relationship with him before, mainly because our personalities are a great match. But I never pursued this because - I NEVER (!) would‘ve imagined that he could like me - I think I don‘t feel physically attracted to him? And that‘s very strange since I did consider his looks to be my type...
I‘m super confused right now. What I would like to know is if my hesitation towards his moves are some kinda red flag, that I just don‘t like him the same way he might like me. Or is physical/romantic attraction something that can develop if you start viewing someone as a potential partner for a longer time? I don‘t wanna end up 'leading him on‘ or anything...
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