This guy has been asking me out for weeks. He got my number off a friend of his and he really likes me, and I thought why not, he seems like he really wants this.
So two things
1) He sent me a message saying 'I really want to take you out, but I havent got any money until payday so it looks like it'll be your treat this time ;)'
I was a bit like...um...okay. I usually offer to pay for myself anyway on first dates...and sometimes for both of us if I really like them but this guy is expecting me to pay for us both after he suggested it?
2) He wants to go to a resturant out of town...but does not have a car. I do drive. He's asked me can I pick him up and take him back home. He also suggested we go for a drive afterwards. I'm assuming I am paying the full petrol cost as he is broke...
Anyway. I don't have any strong feelings for him but I like to give everyone a chance. This has really put me off though.
I can't help but feel defensive because my ex used me for money and I drove everywhere. I paid for 99% of our dates and he never offered me petrol money. He also used to borrow money from me.
Am I being unreasonable by feeling put off by this?
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