I'm 20 and my family is really pushing me to date. My aunts, uncles, Dad, grandma, and basically everyone but my Mom wants me to get out and date. I'm willing to give it a try. They often say Tinder or some other Dating App is a good way to start. My issue is that I'm 5'1." While I love my height, I'm not dumb enough to ignore the realities that it has in the online dating sphere. Being 5'1" and male on Tinder is like being an that one anti-vax guy who nobody invites out anymore. Then again, you can just get vaccinated, so not the best analogy.
The point is, I've heard being a man using Online Dating apps is hard, but being short is like carrying 5000kg of steel on your back. You exponentially decrease your chances on there. I'm not ugly, I have good hair, fit, a very nice face and jawline, but I feel like just the 5'1" aspect puts me at a huge deficit.
I'm confident that I can get women to like me if I talk to them, I'm really good at attracting women IRL, but then again, you can't gatekeep interactions IRL. On tinder or bumble or something, they can easily ignore or block me.
Again, not insecure, but I have to admit that reality is sometimes not advantageous to your situation.
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