So, I've seen this case several times now.
A post about Bf/gf telling their partner that they love them. Aww, cute. Partner however reacts in total shock and everyone is agreeing that this is normal.
Now I'm not judging anyone. I understand people have different dating ideas, tactics and feelings. However, being someone who always thought & thinks "simple" in such cases... I'm getting a bit scared by this phenomena.
Like...I thought you'd enter a relationship BECAUSE you love each other. Even if you are one of those "oh that's not REAL love" gatekeepers, there has to be at least some romantic intention, right?
But around me, people are seemingly very adamant you don't date because you love, but you love (maybe) because you date. And that ideas like "I only kiss someone I love" only gives me bewildered stares.
Are people calling each other bf/gf easier nowadays, or am I missing something? I just don't want to get into the situation where I date a guy, we agree to a relationship, kiss and I snuggle up to him and say I love him and BOOM! Everything's gone!
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