I believe I am a decent and good looking guy. I don't have issues matching with women on dating apps. I have been on a lot of dates with some stunning women as well as some average but I always make sure it's the chemistry that connects me, not always the looks. I know what I want.
Yes, I've been rejected by women on first dates and that never bothered me before. But recently I started to come across this more and more often.
Going to give you a very recent example:
Met this girl on Hinge, chatted a few days, conversation was great and I asked her out. We went for a drink. Stunning, tall, beautiful smile, have kids ( I have kids) great chat, lots of laughs some intimate conversation etc..
We left the bar, as we were saying goodbye she kissed me. We literally kissed for minutes, people passed by we didn't care. I usually don't initiate for a kiss on first date unless it comes from women.
Anyway, I went home messaged her saying thanks for amazing night, really had fun, you're a great kisser. Same reply from her.
Next day I messaged her and asked for out for dinner. We went out after a few days, took her to a really nice restaurant . Even picked her up from her place, we kissed for about 5 min in the car even before going anywhere.
Had great time at dinner, more conversation, more chats, looking at each others eyes for minutes with no talking but only smiling, great connection.
We again kissed in the middle of the street for minutes. dropped her back home.
I haven't heard from her for 3 days ( I messaged once) She text me this morning saying thank you but I'm looking for more chemistry and connection.
I seriously don't know how much more chemistry women are looking for and don't know how much I can express my interest and that I'm into someone.
I'M LOST!
Am I doing too much? Am I too friendly?
Do they realise I'm boring on the second date? I can hold a conversation, I have general knowledge on topics and interesting and fun stories.
I let them do 80% of the talking and try to listen. Do they think I'm not interested in?
I seriously don't know what else I can do. Maybe I'm not attractive. She was 6 years younger than me, maybe she realised that was an issue.
any advice would be great.
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