My ex boyfriend (23M) and I (21F) were together for 3 years and lived together for the last year of our relationship. We ended up breaking up in January, and now 7 months later, he reached out to me and wants to try to make it work again.
I am having a serious internal conflict on whether this is the right choice because I don’t want to go through all this just to end up breaking up again when I felt like I was finally accepting our break up just to have to relive it all again if it doesn’t work out.
We did meet up yesterday and talk about things, but it just feels kind of weird between us to me. We both have furthered our careers, I recently started my job as a Registered Nurse and he has began working in real estate and I feel like we are both just different people than we were 7 months ago.
I always expected if we got back together to just be able to pick up right where we left off and I would know that it is meant to be. I always thought we would end up getting married one day, even when we were broken up, I always just had a feeling we would find our way back to eachother. But now I don’t know.
He just recently signed a one year lease for an apartment that is an hour away from where I currently live. And I always envisioned us getting back together and getting a place together. Not getting back together and having to “hang out” when we used to live together for over a year. So all the circumstances are leading me to believe it’s not meant to be.
Did anyone else ever experience a situation like this and you ended up being together long term/getting married?
TLDR: My ex boyfriend of 3 years reached out to me after 7 months of being broken up, wanting to get back together. He has recently moved over an hour away from me and I am questioning whether or not I should go ahead with this and just see how it goes, or if I should just cut my loses and move on.
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