It's really kind of sad that I haven't figured it out yet how to handle this....but what do you all do (mostly ladies) when the bill comes? Men, what do you like to see from ladies when you go to pay the bill? While I do think it is very nice if the man pays, I also do not think I am entitled to it, so I always want to at least offer to split it but somehow I can never figure out a way to word it that sounds sincere, and I am not just "reaching" to appear polite. Saying something like "can I pay half", for some reason makes me feel it makes it too casual, like we're two friends hanging out, not on a date...but not offering make me feel crappy.
What about times when they pay too quickly and I don't have a chance to offer? Like if the bill arrives and they whip out their card and give it to the waitress. Is it safe to assume they have every intention of paying it all and I can just say thank you?
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