I am a 27 year old female and just recently broke my own heart by coming to the realization that I am dating a leech/liability. We have been together for about 5 1/2 years and this past Monday is the first time he’s had an actual ‘job’ for about 97% of the relationship. He is 24 years old and I now realize one of the worst people I’ve ever had the displeasure of meeting. I have been working since I was 14 years old (held my first job for 8 1/2 years) and graduated undergrad right before the pandemic started. I have since starting working at an insurance company and have gotten my insurance license. Not only is he unmotivated to actually hold any job long as enough to make some type of change in his life, but he has the worst attitude of anyone I’ve ever met. And before you ask, no, he did NOT act this way when we first met. He was attentive, honest, and easy to talk to. Now? He is the reason I dread coming home every day. He recently put himself in a position where he was put out of where he was staying and since then I have been solely responsible for the bills. He’s been there for me at times when I was struggling with a hook and other things so I felt it my obligation to to return the favor. The move was last September and I’ve been doing everything ever since and I am at my breaking point finally. I tried to it for it for as long as possible because I felt guilty for no longer wanting to/being able to pull his weight for him. But I cannot do it any longer. His shitty attitude along with his nonexistent work ethic are finally starting to make my blood boil. I’m disgusted with myself for putting myself in a position where I feel like I’m obligated to take care of anyone. Especially a person I feel like I’ve had to teach how to respect me and he is still barely meeting that guideline. I’m tired of holding my tongue. And I’m also tired of repeating the same shit and nothing changes. I’m convinced he will never change. History only continues to repeat itself and I’m tired of waiting around for different results and NOTHING changes.
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