So I have been purposely consciously single for the past three years trying to pursue a relationship with God and I have been celibate and not like had any type of male interaction such as kissing holding hands etc. the entire time.
Recently I felt like really fulfilled with myself and I feel so attractive physically and where I am at my career as well as financially, and I felt as though it was time that maybe I could step into the dating game.
Most of my friends are married or engaged and my other friends that I have that are single I don’t really find too much satisfaction in hanging out with or going out to clubs with and dancing/being by myself (I don’t try to meet ppl in night life but love dressing up and feeling attractive). Or my other friends will just be really tired from working because of whatever reason.
For some reason this makes me feel like I’m at a different stage in life than my friends. I’m feeling bored and like I am craving action and having the desire to meet someone and feel all the sensations that come along with getting to know someone. I am feeling like I really want a relationship in the sense of that I want someone I can hang out with ,think is interesting and also physically attracted to ,and that I would want to be with on a repeat basis.
However, my confusion comes in that there’s so many like clichés online about why, or what your motivations should be when it comes to desiring a partner and so I just feel like is it OK for this to be why I want to date?
Are these legitimate indicators that I am ready for a relationship?
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