Honest advice Please** I’ve been dating this guy that wants me to move in with him, it’s not like he’s a stranger, we dated 6 plus years ago and recently rekindled some things. We have raw sex, we spend quality time, share goals etc, we really enjoy each other’s company.
Now, I’m in a situation where I have to start completely over in life and he wants to help, I’m getting connected to him again I tend to express how I feel about his social media presence that caught my attention recently.
I’ve noticed that this man follows Every thirst trap- he’s literally added, turned on every post notification etc so he can be updated when they post ANYTHING not just one or two, more like 50-100 plus of only fans thirst trappers. It’s not like I went snooping either, I follow some of these women myself, but I’m starting to see that he’s added them ALL. I feel like THATS what he want. Also, I don’t think he buys flicks from them but he saves the ones they post publicly, screenshots, etc. Makes me feel less than enough and he once made me feel more than enough. Seeing his name as a follower on ALL the pages really disgusts me. None of this makes me feel loved, adored, respected, or cherished by this man. This bugs me and sometime I have to ignore him completely so my emotions don’t get me overly angry.
As a woman how would you feel?! Honestly As a man - please help me understand this cuz emotionally it’s making me feel like I could never amount to what he’s lusting over. I don’t like feeling this way. He says it’s because “I’m not there” & he wants me there. He’s even offered to delete his media. I’m just looking at how’s he’s making me feel RIGHT NOW before I take this leap. These archived thirst trap photo album is not showing me “ I want you to move in with me, I love you behavior”.
P.S - I don’t bring it up in an argumentative tone either. I just talk/communicate ask questions that I wanna know the answer to.
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