I met a friend’s friend at a sleepover party and we had a great time. I got to know about his philosophy of the world and a lot about his life. The more i got to know him, the better i thought of him. The problem is that my energy just wasn’t right that day. I was so nervous and my energy was just swallowed inwards. (There were new people but that wasn’t it. Idk i’m very in tune with the energies of places which unnerves me. Also, i might have had this desire to not disappoint the people there so couldn’t express myself completely). I can’t believe I wasted such an opportunity to connect with such a cool person. I guess, I wouldn’t say ‘wasted’ because he seemed very willing to make others comfortable in a very humble and funny way. We did connect tho later in the night when the three of us were sleeping together in one room we laughed a lot and before I left, they gave me the warmest hug. But… now he’s not replying to my texts. I know he’s been busy the past couple of days because he just had a concert but it makes me doubt myself and make me feel like I should have been more myself that day.
But then there’s this other guy I thought I was so fascinated by, but the more I get to know him… i feel quite platonic towards him. And i’m wondering whether my infatuation for this new guy i’m pondering about has to do with my decrease in interest in this other guy.
Omg… this is why my over-thinking brain would rather disengage in anything romantic. Anyways, help me?
How should I think or approach this confusing and self-doubting situation??
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