Hey guys i kinda need your advice.
1 month ago me[M25] and my classmate [F21] flirtet alot [both very attractive]nearly got together,til she flaked on a groupmeeting my 2 bestfriends in piss cold Weather.She told them she needet to go to the WC, we said fine.After 30min she told them theyre still waiting since many ppl are there .another 30min later she told them theyre comming to us.Again another 20min were gone and than she told us she met her drunk cousin and needet to drive him back.
.I Couldnt tolerate that how she treated my friends when i brought them to introduce them to her .they have enough shit to do.When i met her in school i ignored her for nearly 2 days til i couldnt do it anymore and spoke w her to resolve this Situation. To my surprise she instandly apologized and it soundet sincere so i thought ,finally over+very selfreflecting girl,great.
Next day in school,she started to ignore me for like 3 days,i thought wtf,u said Ur sorry ,why are u doing it now.My biggest mistake probably Was giving her attention when she Was cold.After i tryed to ask her why shes ignoring me i got the Answer:im not ignoring you.(it Was obv to me that she might say that ).Weird thing is she nonstop tryed to make me jelous,by flirting with a friend of mine,which i ignored or by talking about the guys who write w her on tinder when im near her.
After some hot cold cycle ,i was bored of this shit and asked her out when she Was in bad mood +cold(didnt care anymore)she obv refused i didnt mind and moved on like it didnt matter to me and Was friendly after that to her which made her confused and she prob took it as provocation.
I thought everything finally over, nope it got worse.i got the silent treatment ,i got treated like i didnt exist.it hurt me like hell in the beginning, i couldnt unverstand it .But i knew that her behavior is toxic af and since i was used to her hot cold shit i mimiced her and did the Same, even tho i was kinda hurt and wanted to talk.I guess she knew it wont work anymore,so she tryed to provoke me with passive aggressive behavior,i ignored her than she tryed to Isolate me ,which i ignored .She tryed flirt harder with my classmate and than always tryed to hold eye contact with me,i ignored,reject her eyecontact.
After that she got kinda nice again?tryed to slowly warm up w me and tryed to talk a little bit each day a little more and i just replyed with jep,ok.(i didnt wanted to talk to her ,because she still didnt told me why the fk she did,what she did.
Now she tryed to Touch me "accidently"or go near me ,which i replayed with fuck off.Since im Disgusted by her behavior and was already creeped out by her behavior.
When i try flirt w someone else ,she will cockblock the shit out of me.She wont leave me alone ,touching me while doing it,talk bad about her or tryng to hold eye contact with the girl im flirting and telling her to not look/piss off.How in the hell does this make any sense. she rejected me ,so what is her Problem?
Also Redflags -She lovebombed me at first.was weird for me how she already shared such privat things,but thought shes just inexperienced. -Copyng me . -Flirted with me when she still was w her boyfriend, i didnt liked it so i rejected her advances. -Uses Ton of social medias like tiktok,insta and post half Nude pictures of herself.
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