My (21f) boyfriend (22m) seems too be closer to his female bestfriend (21f) then he is to me

So I posted this on another subreddit, but thought this place would better.

Okay so a little bit of background.

My bf (22m) and I (21f) have known each other since we were 11, and we've been friends for so long. We had a little bit of fwb thing in high school that got mad weird so we stopped, when we started developing feelings for each other. Last year tho, he asked me to be his gf and its been great for the most part.

This February when we were celebrating his birthday i find out that he got this super cool jacket made from him by this girl. This was the first time he ever mentioned said girl (21f), but according to him, he spoke about her quite a lot but always just referred to her as "my friend" (so obv i assumed 'this friend' was a guy). I have never met this girl, and he doesn't want me to meet her for now. But whenever he's not with me, he's either with her or on the phone with her, my family is strictly over protective and religious so i can't see him as much as I'd like. He keeps telling me that she is just his best friend and that i dont need to worry. But I can't help but worry.

I trust him. I know he wouldn't do anything to jeopardize what we have, however, their closeness is still eating me up (especially after asking who he'd save first if we were both drowning - stupid ik but i just wanted some reassurances - and no matter how many times I'd ask, he'd always avoid answering and try to change the subject).

I don't wanna be the type of girl where I'd give him an ultimatum, but i also kept stop feeling so negative about the situation.

I really love him and don't know what to do, any advice?

Some things about his personality to bear in mind; he has this cold exterior vibe but in reality he's really a teddy bear, he also always goes for the rational logical approach towards everything (which is the opposite for me since I let my heart lead the way). Also, he tends to get angry pretty easily (when he gets mad, he usually leaves to calm himself down, then return).

**TL;DR;** Bf is too close to his female best friend, that I'm beginning to feel ignored.

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