I [30M] don't have a ton of experience. Still figuring things out. Anyways I've had one video chat and two dates with this girl [31F]. She seems fairly into things (wants to hang out, messaging is frequent and reciprocal). With that said, IMO she seems to be taking things very slow. I am not sure if it is covid, or maybe she is shy. On our dates I noticed she keeps her distance, but she also can't seem to look at me, and we have basically never locked eyes! I didn't think I was that ugly harhar. Our conversation is about getting to know each other but IMO pretty surface level. I have tried to get a bit deeper but I don't want it to be one-sided and come off as I am a bore.
To me, we had a really nice second date and she didn't seem to want it to end. I thought it could have been a good time for a kiss goodnight. But she kept her distance and I could tell it would not be a good idea. She hasn't mentioned being afraid of covid, nor about wanting to take things slow. I asked if she had had any serious relationships previously and she said no. So I'm a bit lost. Almost starting to feel like these might be red flags a bit? It wouldn't be a cultural thing.
Ideally I'd like to just talk to her, tell her I have noticed that she's keeping her distance and wondering if she is worried about covid, or just preferring to taking things slow, or what? I'd almost prefer to do this in text but I cannot figure out how to word. I don't want to make her uncomfortable but I am also thinking we are going to have a bit of a hard time building something if we're basically always walking outside when it is still a bit cool to be out for hours on end. Or am I off base and this is normal for covid times? I was seeing someone for a few months starting in November and things moved way quicker, covid did not hold us back.
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