I (22m) have been seeing this girl (20f) for 6months at college. We met on tinder (red flag #1) and have been hanging out, hooking up, and going on dates about twice a week since the beginning. Things got serious and she even told me she loved me multiple times and says shes crazy about me everyday and texts me first all the time. However, I have not said I love you to her and this really bothers her and she has cried about it. I haven’t said it because I told her I don’t trust her yet. Heres why: in the beginning we asked each other if we were seeing anyone else, both said no, then the next week she told me she just came from a date. Also, she follows a bunch of guys from local schools (met on tinder) on instagram and likes all their old photos. She posted tinder messages and pictures of tinder matches on her private story when we had a little argument when she said I dont text her enough. She even posted her and another dude late at night alone drinking beer.. (to get me jealous)
All of this caused me not to trust her. We arent dating or exclusive, and because of all this I became super distant and just seeing this as a hookup. However we go on amazing dates and I have fallen in love with her. We sat down and I told her everything about how I dont trust her. She wants me to love her but I dont think I can trust her for a relationship even though I want to and things are great right now. I dont know how to proceed. Also, this is my last month in college, and I will graduate and move far away from her. I dont know what to do, and Im paranoid that shes sleeping with other guys, I always check her stories constantly. She says the same about me though: she says “i hope you arent seeing other girls” and I dont blame her because I havent even said I love you to her. She says she wants to marry me and told her mom about me but Im pretty sure shes seeing other guys. Sorry for the rant. Any advice please.
Tldr: 6month nonexclusive dating this girl. She says I love you to me daily, I dont. I dont trust her because of her actions and I am paranoid about her seeing other guys. Any help please. Graduating in a month
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