So long story short I (24f) matched with this guy (21m)a few weeks ago and we got on super well.
The chemistry is great and we're always making each other laugh. Ngl he's the youngest guy I've ever even considered dating as I normally go for guys who are a little bit older. He also lives in another country so eve apart from the whole pandemic it's not possible for us to meet in person yet.
Anyway he asked if I could send him some full body pictures as he wanted to get a better idea of what I looked like (nothing sexual, just straight up photos of me)
I'm in pretty good shape but I get super anxious about stuff like this. He reassured me that it was totally cool and he had already seen some pictures on my tinder profile so this was just a way for us to connect a little more when there's so much distance between us.
Sent him a couple of photos and BAM. Guy starts laughing about how my body is like a complete flatland area and that's there's not much going on etc. I just felt completely floored because either the man didn't look at my tinder profile at all or he just likes making people feel bad about their appearance.
Also I can totally accept if a person doesn't want to date someone they're not physically attracted to but this guy has just acted like nothing ever happened and is still interacting with me as normal.
I've felt really self conscious since this happened and I don't know how to bring it up as I hate confrontation. Should I even continue seeing this guy or just cut it off before I get really hurt?
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