I'm a pretty outgoing lady. Ive never been afraid to make the first move. I've been flirting with a coworker of mine for about a month. I kept dropping hints, ...like, lobbing watermelons kind of hints. He was sweet and flirtatious in his own way but any kind of verbal flirt was never the response. He's the kind of guy who keeps to himself most of the time but when he does speak he's so freaking funny and you dont expect it. He likes dad jokes and so do I.
So I started meeting him at his speed. I asked for his number to send him silly memes. After exchanges of memes for a couple weeks, convos actually began, but then I still couldnt get him to take the hint of asking me out or being any more flirtatious than he was. I figured maybe he was just nervous of overstepping. So like the confident woman I am, I finally just told him if I was being honest I found him quite cute and might he be interested, via text. He didnt respond for awhile so i joked if it was a swing and a miss. To my surprise he said no he's just not very good at this and never knows what to say and gets stuck in his own head. The honesty! So i took the initiative and asked him to lunch, naming the time and place and he was thrilled!
Ladies, if you know you got the guts and he's a quieter fella, take the lead. Ask him. Be direct and specific with your intentions. It pays off. I got me a cute lunch date in the park ☺
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