About two years ago I was sleeping with this girl. I didn't say it directly but I wasn't looking for a relationship and showed that through my actions. Most of our dates revolved around sex, I shut down any forms of real intimacy and we didn't really have many deep conversations.
Fast forwards to current times - I've grown as a person, have had a serious relationship, and honestly I am not really into the whole casual sex thing anymore. Our paths have crossed again and we started talking. I was amazed at how much in common this girl and I have.
We've been out a couple of times over the past month and while we have had sex most of them, I am trying my best to show actual interest in her. I'm going out of my way to have lots of deep conversations with her, we cuddle a lot before and after sex. Our dates revolve mostly around getting to know each other rather than just simply fucking and heading our separate ways.
But honestly I am quite worried that she's just in it for the sex, as that's the only relationship we've had before. I am trying my best to show through my actions that I actually like her as a person, and while she reciprocates the intimacy I have no idea what to do next.
Should I just keep playing it cool and going out with her? Our relationship was strictly sexual before so I have no idea if I need to have an actual talk with her to specify that I'm no longer into casual sex anymore.
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