I met a guy on tinder and we’ve been talking a little over two months. He’s not open about his emotions or feelings and I really struggle not knowing how he feels about me. He’s told me once that he likes me but he doesn’t see the need to repeat it. And honestly I don’t need him to constantly tell me that he likes me and reassure me but it’s hard because he also doesn’t ever really compliment me or say that he is happy to see me or that like hanging out with me.
He never seems like really excited to see me. I think My love language is verbal. I need to hear those things. He will also go like a whole day without talking to me at all or even saying hi, Because I feel so unsure about where he stands it causes me to feel crazy because it’s like I don’t know if he’s actually busy or if he’s ignoring me.
He says he’s just not really emotional person and I brought it up two other times and he I guess in his own way tried to make a change but it’s like he just told me in the conversation “yeah I like you” and then kept acting the same that was it he didn’t make like an actual change.
So last night I try to bring the conversation up again but this time I wanted to give him a clear instructions of what I needed from him so that we don’t have to have this conversation again. He says that we’re just hanging out and getting to know each other and he feels as if I’m putting a lot of pressure on it. I told him I just don’t want my feelings to be growing without knowing his. I don’t want it to be one sided
He says making him try to do this stuff is crazy?
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