So I’m a guy and by the very definition of the word, I’m desperate. After 3 years of trying with girls I have yet to get even a single date. It’s nothing but constant rejection. I’ve tried everything. I’ve met girls through mutual friends, used 5 different dating sites, joined clubs at my university to try to meet new people, gone to many social events and have tried to meet girls there. Nothing has worked.
I really don’t know what’s wrong with me. I think I have a pretty good personality. I’m in decent shape, I volunteer, I’m smart, I can cook, I’ve been told I’m funny, I have a good amount of girl friends that don’t think I suck. My standards aren’t high at all, in fact as long as they don’t actively mistreat me I’d be fine with any girl. But still I have had no success ever with any girl. Like I’m 22 and I haven’t even held hands with a girl. I haven’t had my first kiss, have never been on a date and im still a virgin.
I always hear that desperation is a turn off for women, but I really can’t help being desperate. If I had girls interested in me, I wouldn’t be desperate but because don’t women don’t like me.
Like how is that a never ending cycle? How the hell am I supposed to break this cycle so I am just get at least one girl interested in me?
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