I need advice!!!
So, I recently got out of my comfort zone and went on a date with someone I met online. He’s super nice, cute, and fun to be with. But lately I have been getting weird vibes. We text almost 24/7, which it is very nice to text someone honestly. But after our third date I just felt uncomfortable.
We almost hooked up but didn’t, I said I wanted to wait and basically said I didn’t think it was a good idea.
Before this I told him about my past - that I got raped in college so I’m a little slow when it comes to this stuff. After I told him that, (through text), he proceeds to tell me his “deepest darkest secret” and that’s that he uses nair in “those places”. Like I thought it came off a little insensitive. But also he said he hears crazy stories like that all the time.
He asked to come over at midnight the other night. I said probably not a good idea, and he replied with “you always say that, I don’t mind the drive”
I one time told him how I’m trying to eat well for a wedding I’m in, and since then he has been asking me if I’ve been working out. He also said my body would be a 10/10 if I worked out more. I’m not sure if he’s trying to be nice but it made me even more self conscious than I already am. I told him that and he said he didn’t mean for it to come across as that, but I should eat in moderation and all that stuff. I told him I eat chocolate to get through work (im a nurse lol) and he told me that’s no excuse to eat unhealthily.
He also talks about other girls he’s brought on dates. However I did ask him if he’s been on crazy dates and stuff, but mid almost hooking up in his apartment he talked about what other girls did to him and what he liked and what not.
He keeps asking me to hang out again ( he did tonight) and I said I couldn’t. I feel like I need to end it but I’m so anxious. The problem is, I have an ACTUAL phobia of dates. Like, I had to be prescribed Xanax to go on these. I was so nervous it was unbelievable. I would try to talk myself out of seeing him but knew I should. So am I just talking myself out of hanging out with him again because I’m scared?
And if I were to end it I would just feel so bad.
Thank you everyone if you have read this far. Any advice is much appreciated. 💕
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