So I met this girl online but couldn't meet fast because of distance, but texted for almost two months (50 days aprox.). I made the mistake of having only one pic that didn't show my face clearly, but since she swiped right and kept texting me for so long I just thought that didn't bother her. Well one day, I wanted to see how interested she was in me so I write her something like "whenever you wanna talk feel free to hit me up", and she literally writes me the next day at 7:30 am super excited to talk with me, but when I answer her text she didn't respond until the next day and I basically had to reach out to her cause I was confused about it. She said she was busy working on a project, I found it oddly coincidential cause I told her I was also working on a project but whatever, I believed her and kept the convo going. Well we keep talking for like a week and then she asks for more pics. She said she "wanted to see my cute face", I may sound very naive by saying this but with her saying it like that it made me more relaxed cause I thought she would be a bit less cold about it. Plus, we were also talking once about how she was insecure about looks and I tried my best to make her feel better about that, so I thought she would be a bit more empathetic about it. Well I send her my pics and she takes a while to respond but says she likes my pics, and well I believe her and feel really happy about that, but then right after my next text I get ghosted. I reach out and tell her I was confused about it and never get an answer, she also changes her profile pic after I send the message reaching out and uploads a story so it's obvious she saw the message and chose to ignore it. Idk how to feel now, Idk if I should be upset or try to see things from her perspective but I feel so ugly now. Like, i'm texting this person for almost 2 months, she talks to me about how she is insecure about looks and I show her my face and apparently that's enough for her to completely ghost me.
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