I have met this guy around 1 year ago and I have liked him since the first moment. We started hanging out in a group of friends and we got very close, doing things just me and him together. As we progressed it started to become a particular type of relationship and we have developed a lot of sexual chemistry.
This takes the form in him making sexual jokes about me (nothing offensive, just i.a. ‘That’s something she would do’) also around friends, us giving each other massages and being kinda cuddly, us talking about sex for a long time and just all of our friends believing that we are actually having sex and thinking we are a couple.
At the end of last year, we were drunk at a party and he told me that I wasn’t his type anyway. After that, I got hurt and I told him about this. He apologized but that made our friendship end. Then, with corona university closed and we didn’t see each other until a few months ago as he was away. When he came back, we picked it up from where it was before and we started again with the chemistry and jokes. We also spent a lot of time together. After the exams, he was asking me to do stuff everyday which would have involved just the 2 of us. Nevertheless, he has had many chances for something to happen but nothing has actually happened (I must say I had mononucleosis in May and that he was scared about it, but that’s not a 100% excuse). He was a bit curious about the guy that gave me mono though. Also, we went away with our class for 3 days and he rarely spent time with me, while I had the impression that he was trying to flirt with another girl. During one night, when there was just the 2 of us, I remember he put on these really sexual songs and he was singing them to me. He is a bit obsessed with my ass and it was mostly about that.
He then left the city and since then we aren’t really on talking terms. He sometimes sends me reels on Instagram (mostly about girls showing their ass and so) and snaps me. The other night we went on talking until 4am just about sex. He also admitted I have set the standard among girls - but I’m not sure he said that just to make me happy or he really meant it. He confessed that he has slept with some girls in the past weeks and that kind hurt me.
The reason I’m writing is that I’m going to his home country to visit him with some friends and we will stay there for a few days. After that we will not see each other for the next year probably as we will go on exchange on 2 different terms. He hinted that something will happen during our trip, but I’m not sure that is right because I have the feeling I am just a sexual object to him and he doesn’t value me.
This type of ‘friendship’ has never happened to me and I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to get hurt. It would be nice if anyone could give me their perspective and maybe understands what he is thinking. Thank you
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