I (21,F) am in a relationship with a guy(21,M)I absolutely love. We have our best days together and he does so much for me and I love him. But our love languages are different. His is physical touch, mine is quality time. And as people, we're polar opposites. And I just feel like he doesn't try to learn my love language. Like he'll do things for me, but it's not in my love language. For me, quality time is the most important thing in a relationship. And everytime it's either he's tired, or I'm tired or he's upset or something has happened or we've gotten into a fight. Last week he did take me on a date, but then again today he said something in an argument about the how much the fuel on the date cost and IDK, it made me feel bad. Also, he does this thing, where he just shoots hurtful stuff at me. Like for example, today we had an argument, and he avoided me the whole day. I called me around 20 times, texted him, asked him to atleast let me know if he's just mad at me, or has something happened. But I got nothing. Later at night I get a call and he says how while spending time with me, he was unhappy. And that's it. That's all I get from him. He doesn't even know why he was unhappy. I asked him if it was me and is there anything I could do. Nothing.
This one other time, he was not feeling too great, and I tried helping him but I guess I wasn't getting everything right and he goes, "You can't take care of me."
Am I just being dramatic about all this? What should I do? Any advices?
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