I am currently 17 (girl) and my ex is 18 (boy). We liked each other for 3 years then we dated for 10 months but we broke up because of my mom. He was honestly was the stereotypical perfect boyfriend. He was the type of boyfriend who would randomly stop by my house on his way home from work to give me a hug, come over just to help me study for tests, bring me a tea before my exams and the list goes on. We had so much in common that it was always easy to enjoy the others company. I never had to doubt whether he liked me or not and I was actually happy. My mom was mentally abusive so I had mental issues he helped me through too. My mom didnt like this boy and she tried to convince me that he was gonna cheat on me (even tho he never gave me a reason to think he would), she tried to tell me he didnt like me and that he was using me, she said he was trying to isolate me from my entire family. He used to take me on dates often but my mom would make fun of our dates or call me lazy if he paid, she said so many bad things about our dates that I stopped going on dates with him. She said so many things to try to get me to break up with him and for a month straight she told me that if I didnt break up with him she was going to move out (it was an empty threat). This boy used to pick me up just so I could cry in his arms about my mom. My mom grounded me for 2 months and she spent the whole 2 months telling me horrible things about the relationship and trying to convince me he was cheating on me. It got so isolating and I ended up in a bad place mentally. This boy told me my mom was mentally abusive and manipulative but I didn't believe him until I went to therapy and realized he was right but it was too late. He broke up with me after I was ungrounded. He told me he couldn't handle my mom and he said I didnt desvere to be that hurt because of her. He said I deserved to be loved more than he could love me right now. he spent the day crying with me so it very clearly hurt him because he rarely cries. I don't know what to do? I really miss him and he made me feel so loved and I was so happy but my mom didnt like it. I want this boy back but I'm afraid it's too late. I'm not sure if I should wait for him because it feels right or move on and forget. please help.
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