I’ve matched with a handful of guys who will only respond when I ask a question, and then we will trade a few messages back and forth but then the conversation goes dead until the next time I ask another question. Mind you, these are interesting guys who respond in complete sentences with complex thoughts, but I am always the one driving the conversation forwards. Every time I ask another question, they will always respond, so it’s not like they’re ghosting me. And if the question also applies to me they will ask me to answer as well, and we’ll have a nice back and forth for a while, but once it ends they won’t start things back up. I usually lose interest in being the sole driver after about a week and then I let the conversation go dead.
My question is, what motivates guys to behave this way? It’s truly confusing to me.
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