I (24m) don’t go on many dates, and a lot of the ones I do go on aren’t very good. But the last two good dates I’ve had were very similar stories. Met on Hinge, texted for over a week very frequently, met up for dinner or coffee, had a great time just chatting about each others’ lives, and then get a text the next day:
“I think you’re a super kind, sweet guy, but I just didn’t feel the connection I’m looking for.”
I appreciate the decency and honesty up front, but after multiple rounds of this same story, it stings. I’m of the opinion that you usually aren’t sure of that connection/“spark” right away, and I think one date is a bit soon to tell for sure. Am I wrong here? I want to be respectful, and I obviously can’t force how someone feels, but I’m tired of first date after first date with the same result.
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