So I'm in my final year of university (one more semester to go!) and throughout my life I've noticed that I'm not really the kind of guy most women go for, especially at a school like mine where everyone is cool and crazy talented. As such, I've never even had my first kiss, which amazes everyone I tell, and presents itself as a red flag, and nobody has ever been interested in me romantically.
But back in high school, I, as the first in my family (who are all immigrants from very poor backgrounds) to ultimately attend college, was determined to work hard to get what I wanted. and I did! I got into a top university with a full tuition scholarship, got great grades, and just accepted an offer for a prestigious job position where it wouldn't be unlikely in ten years for me to make 7+ figures to secure my future and that of my parents, all while making amazing friends and experiencing new things I never could have imagined four years prior.
Still, I am ultimately a nerdy, shy, skinny Latino guy who is probably more mature than my peers, and so I am not really attractive to most girls who are just looking for some fun. And that's totally okay, I get it; if I were them, I would probably do the same. But it is kind of unfortunate that I am practically shut out of the current dating pool. I was speaking to my therapist and she suggested that maybe I should wait until my 30s to have some dating fun and ultimately have a lasting relationship when I am more attractive to women. Is this a good idea? I've been pondering it for a short while and need some advice. Thanks!
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