I have been seeing a lot of posts about exes and people going back to them as if they were boomerangs with Alzheimer's disease.
Nostalgia is an useless emotion, alright? Sure it is nice to look at the past and remember the good times but things ended for a reason and fantazising abour how good things were will not help you remember how true things were, all the annoying little things that drove you away, all the pain, all the bad stuff.
The idea of going back to someone may be rooted on that and the fantasy that makes you say "Maybe this time things will be different" will they though? What are you? A fortune teller?
No, please, do not, go forward with your life, you have been in the playing field, now you are on the bench, which means you may get called to play again, do not make the same old moves and expect different outcomes.
Meet new people! Be lonely but not alone for a while! Have fun! But do not forget the past, the past is there to teach you, I know, I went back to my ex three times, third was the charm as they say, I realize she was toxic, she literally went out of her way to make my miserable for her own pleasure, and I was too caught up in pheromones and crap to do something about it, until I did it.
And now I am happy, single, but happy, sure I may have had a few extra hook ups which were nice, but I can not complain.
Please be better.
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