I’m 28F, I’ve been talking to a guy, 27M, for many months, and we only met just now; we would have met earlier but we both have busy schedules. He is even more busy than me though, and lives in a different city, but my job brought me to his city plenty of times before, and he was always to busy to meet. I was always understanding, because I like him, and he said he likes me.
But, I even started talking to other people, because I just figured he must not be that into me since he is so distant on the phone and ultra busy all the time. However, he says he’s only talking to me, and I’m the only one he’s interested in right now. He also calls me nicknames over text like “my love” or just “love” or “my angel” says I’m “perfect” etc, so confusing when we talk like maybe once a week or so usually, and I’m almost always the one texting first. Although, I know he’s always near his phone, because he is on social media a lot. Anyway, I gave him the benefit of the doubt and we met in person, and he was fantastic! So talkative and so interesting and interested. Made a bunch of plans for the future already which is also mega confusing. Went as far as to make vague plans with me in February (when he is probably going to move to my city)…makes jokes about joint bank accounts lol. I find this cute, but scary. Anyway, as soon as we parted ways it was radio silence over the phone again…unless I text/snap him, then short replies. What do I do?? It’s going to be like 3 weeks until the next time I can see him, do I just not initiate conversation until then? I don’t want to seem over-interested. Is he like keeping me as a back up of some sort? Is his goal to have more emotionally engaged sex with someone and picked me, but doesn’t want to talk on the daily because he doesn’t actually want a relationship down the line? Why make so many plans and say he’s only talking to me then? I’m so confused. Help me internet strangers.
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