Hey, please bear with me as I almost never post and English isn't my first language :)
It's a kinda simple matter, I'm a fairly attractive woman (26 F), sporty, tall (170 cm) and outgoing/friendly. I work in a male dominated field and I'm a volunteer firefighter since a short time. I've been single for 2 years.
In the past, I had low self esteem issues but now I learnt how to be confident about myself. I'm an independant woman, I travel alone and don't "need" anybody but I love being around people and hangout with my friends (mostly males too).
I feel like I'm not seen as a potential partner or flirt, men hardly ever show interest, even if I'm surrounded by them on a daily basis. Maybe I'm blind to these signs, but I don't think so. I make the first move most of the time in dating, but whenever I have a real crush on someone I can become a bit distant and shy as I don't know how to act normally around my crush.
I don't think i'm considered part of "the boys" either: I stay feminine/elegant, but I heard people around me found me a bit cold or unapproachable even if I think I'm quite the opposite
What should I do? Do you think it's because I'm always hanging out with men? Do I scare people? Am I too independant? Maybe they assume I may already be taken? On paper I feel like I have what a man looks for...
Thanks a lot for your replies :)
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