They were in LDR for most of their 3 years of relationship. His GF is working abroad.
They already have joint savings account, they shared payments for their motorcycle, she would buy him takeouts often. She is already investing on him.
As for him, he would always tell me that she's The One, that he'll marry her (yes, they're planning a wedding), that he's only playing because he gets lonely that she's not around...
This is not the first time he's actively dating and hooing up other girls during the time I knew him from work. All the time I kept it to myself, because it's their life, right?
But as time goes by, he began to losely revealing to me all his stupid dates with different girls. He became confident that he even talk about this on the office as if it's just a work-related convo. He even calls his girls infront of my face on our cubicle, as if I care... The last straw was yesterday, he filed a leave and went to a tourist spot with his new girl for the month, and texted me that if his gf asked where he is, I should say he's busy at site. You know, I am a very frank person, and I feel a pang in my heart whenever I lie, even white lies...
What he's doing, is chipping off at my peace... Lately, I am beginning to have thoughts that I should give up on love (I'm single), that I may just find a cheater, that someone will just get tired at me and leave me. Never in my 28 years have I ever thought of that and I never experienced getting cheated on, too. And now, I'm thinking, what if my exes cheated on me that I just didn't knew? Damn.
I don't like the effects of what I am learning about him. I don't want to fear men. I don't want to be paranoid. I want to be a healthy partner to the Love of My Life when he comes...
That's why I told her.
I know they're talking now. She's crying, he's lying again. And I'll see his smug face tomorrow. And he maybe angry with me.
I'm ready to lose my friendship with him if it meant my peace of mind.
PS: If she'll forgive him, it's her fault if history will repeat itself.
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