I never really stopped to consider that maybe my ideals or wants might actually be toxic, but ever since I was young I’ve always yearned to be with somebody forever but as I’ve gotten older and seen how society functions with social media and it’s effects on us as individuals, it has made me wonder if maybe I’m actually wrong for wanting this? Or not wrong but I guess down right stupid for expecting it to be possible? And so I guess I’m asking should I scrap that idea? Or does scrapping my belief system ruin the chance for that person out there whose looking for me? Or is having that mindset mean I’m subconsciously wanting to control that relationship because I’m afraid of abandonment? By projecting onto that person that they are the forever one? Especially when it seems like anybody has the potential to be the one? It’s obvious we all fight this issue cause why do we stay in toxic relationships trying to “fix” the other person when everyone always advises to just leave? Because we all want them to be that forever and we think they can learn from there mistakes, at-least that’s how I’m seeing it. But I really wanted to know what y’all think about this? I apologize if This is a stupid question.
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