I’ve gone on a couple dates with a few different girls, most of which I found really attractive, so that really wasn’t the problem as I wanted to bring things further. The only problem is that for some reason, it always feels like I’m “waiting for something” that’s the best way to describe it.
Like I’m not sure what it is, but I don’t “feel the tension” that I think I should feel where I would want to kiss them or make any other move. It’s like I want to kiss someone, have sex with someone, and all that stuff especially with some of these girls, but I haven’t “felt the moment” or “the tension” to even make an attempt. I’m not sure what it is. Anyways, I’ve never had a second date and I’m starting to believe it’s because I haven’t made any physical type of move on the date. Or if I’ve done the right thing because what I was waiting for wasn’t there.
Is it because although I find her attractive there is no chemistry? Am I simply just not creating the moment and doing something wrong? Or is it because I’m waiting for a “special connection” that I’m not feeling on the date?
I always thought I would be able to read on her face, the way she’s looking at me when I look it her eyes, and feel the tension in the air. But I’ve never felt that before with someone. I can imagine in my head how I want it to feel and how it would be though.
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