Everything was great from everyday texts to seeing each other twice a week, exchanging gifts and suddenly after the holidays he told me that he does not have a deep connection with me.
He said he falls in love really quickly and with me he did not feel it yet. He felt that he should tell me earlier to prevent me from being hurt later as he feels our relationship will be imbalanced in a long run. And he gave the ball to me on what to do.
I was totally shocked and my wall came up straight away and I said it was okay and said let’s not see each other anymore.
Of course, when I was finally alone I broke down as I felt that I have strong feelings for him and totally regretted what I proposed.
After 2 days I finally sent him a text that I actually did not mean what I said and told him that I want to be with him and was wondering if we can take a small break and regroup our feelings.
I told him that he can take all the time he needs and to let me know if he still wants to try or totally end us.
He agreed and he promised that he will definitely come back to me whether if we should continue to see each or not.
I am not sure if I did the right thing as I feel I am trying to hold on and not let him go and limiting myself from seeing new people. Any advice on what should I do now moving forward?
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