About a month ago I decided I truly didn’t want to date or do anything romantic for a while... the results have been surprising

After a hurtful breakup in the spring I spent so much time self-analyzing, it got to the point where all I cared about was finding a partner. I think it was honestly pretty damaging and did more harm than good. About a month ago, I truly decided that I was done looking, and since then I’ve been like 100x better at talking to girls because I genuinely didn’t have any intentions. I’ve actually ended up turning multiple girls down because I knew dating them wouldn’t work and it would end up causing unnecessary pain to both parties. I’m on tinder just for the shits, and after messaging girls just for fun I have girls asking ME on dates! So just a word of advice, this may not work for everyone but once I shifted my perspective on focusing on MY life and growing as a person, all of a sudden girls became way more abundant

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