(25F) I know I’m unattractive. Most guys wouldn’t bother looking twice at me. I’m not graceful or stunning. My personality lacks charm because I’m still figuring out who I am. I’m only funny when I’m clumsy although this is actually spectacular, if it was anybody else I’d most likely join in laughing wholeheartedly. I’ve learnt to laugh at myself but it still kills me a little inside. I get ghosted all the time and have struggled to get any dates both online and offline. I really believed that I was everyone’s last choice girl.
But then last weekend at my sports team social I finally got hit on! I approached my friend “Timmy”*** who was talking to the guy at the time, but it was only to talk to “Timmy”. After “Timmy” introduced us to each other, we got talking and he even told me he’d noticed how pretty I was earlier during the match. This is the first time anybody has ever flirted with me offline and I was at ease speaking to him. He even kissed me at the end of the night and gave me his number without me asking. Normally I’m the one asking guys for their number and they fudge up a lame excuse not to give me it.
I found out later that he is a county level athlete with a high flying job as a broker. This feels like one of those dumb high school cliches come to life when the football team’s star player notices the unpopular outcast girl.
I’m not expecting much but it was a big ego boost. Guess I’m not such an unattractive loser after all. As somebody who never had any luck in dating, I wanted to share this to say there’s hope for everyone!! More people are probably looking at you than you may realise!
***“Timmy” is a pseudonym for my friend.
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