I (19F) want to know what you would do in my situation with (27M) guy.

So, I had met this guy on hinge about 2 weeks ago. We have a pretty big age gap but that isn’t much of an issue to me. I’m currently a full time student and I will be graduating in two years while he has a full time job. The reason I bring those details up is because they are an important reason why things ended. We had been talking for two weeks and decided to go on a date. So we went on our first date this Thursday and I thought it was amazing. He was such a gentleman and we sat and talked for about 2 hours. I had felt like it was great but the next day I get a text from him pretty much saying he didn’t feel a “spark.” I was confused because I’m thinking what spark is someone supposed to feel from a first date, so I questioned him about it. We ended up speaking on the phone and he explained everything to me. He said he felt like I was an amazing person and I checked all his boxes but he didn’t feel that physical chemistry because of my age. He said that because of my age and the fact that we are in two different stages of our lives, it’s holding him back from being more with me. Which I completely understand and enjoyed that he better explained things to me. The issue though is that we continued talking for about 2 more hours after that conversation. He mentioned how he loved that I was super intelligent, that he was starting to regret his decision, and that he should have just taken me on a second date before texting me. And he said that maybe like 2 or 3 times but towards the end of the conversation he was “but I think I need to just stick with my decision.” And that really confused me. Do you think he’s playing me or being genuine? Should I text him and say that we should go in a second date before we decide? I honestly don’t know what to do and I’d very much like to keep getting to know him. What would you do? And what do you think?

Also, I understand that some people don’t completely agree with big age gaps. But please understand and not judge me for those differences. Thank you, I’d really appreciate it.

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