It's quite a complicated story. Basically we're from the same city, she's 2 years younger than me. When I was 16 and she was 14 we played together in an orchestra, both played in the same section. That's where I first met her. We were good friends while rehearsing, talked a bit, nothing strange, but never really met outside the rehearsals or concerts. We also were in germany together at one point with the whole orchestra. At the time I wasn't interested in her, to be honest I wasn't interested in girls at all. Since then I never talked to her. I've actually worked with her mom tho which is kinda funny.
Earlier this year, in mars, we matched on tinder. I talked to her a bit, it was good and all, but I still wasn't that interested when that happened, it was just a normal tinder-match. Now I've suddenly developed a huge crush on this girl, how do I approach this? I wish I would just meet her out on a friday night and talk for a bit or something, but since corona, I'm not sure that will happen very soon.
Is it socially acceptable to reach out by text? How do I write that? And if I were to actually meet her out, how does one start a conversation with someone you kinda know but not really? I find it way easier talking to someone I know well or someone I don't know at all. Is it weird suddenly talking about 5 years ago in that orchestra or when we were in germany? I feel like everything I have in common with her would be weird to talk about, which makes it hard cause I can't treat her like a complete stranger either.
Of course this is a lot of overthinking but it feels so strange having a crush on someone. When I was 18 I had a crush on some new girl every other month but now I haven't had one for atleast 2 years, and I both love it and hate it.
TL;DR: M21 got a crush on F19 I met when I was 16. How does one approach talking to someone you've kind of known before but haven't spoken to in 5 years?
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