Hello everyone, I am sorry for my bad english in advance. I want some insights and advice from you guys. So I (25) know this girl(22) from childhood, she always liked me and sended me love letters when we were kids, but I didin't care about girls at that time and turned her down couple of times. We grew up in the different cities and forgot about each other for many years, 5 years ago we became friends again and started to chat every day. Now the thing is, she looks like super model now, solid 10/10. She was very chubby when she was younger, and boys didin't really liked her, so I guess you can call it a glow up. Guys are bombing her instagram with messages now and giving her compliments all the time. I don't really put her on pedestal, because I see her as a friend, not really pay too much attention to her looks and kind of ignore her when everything goes to dating things, because I have some doubts about her. I can feel that she hates to be ignored like that, she constantly sends me erotic pics, sexy memes, sends me screenshots of how other guys are hitting on her( her dms, tinder stats) it feels like she is trying to make me jelous and wants to be wanted. Now the thing is, I am not attracted to her for this particular reason, I just have bad gut feeling about this, as I don't like girls whom are attention hungry, no matter how hot she is. As a friend she is great and fun to be around, but I think that she has mental issues about getting all this attention from guys, and once I will give it to her, she will get bored and leave. She is also kind of jelous when I mention other girls (call them ugly). Sometimes our friendship gets really exhausting, because of all these mixed signals, one day she doesn't care and the other she is flirting again.
Idk, am I overthinking this or do people really do stuff like that? Only want things they cannot have, and ditch once they get it? Redflag or should I give her a chance, maybe she is rejecting others because of me? What do you guys think?
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