The point I'm going to attempt to make here, a point I'll circle back around to, is that you don't really have the right to get butt hurt or even really frustrated or disappointed if your primary method of trying to find a potential mate is through messaging people on Facebook or other social media, I believe the kids call it "sliding into their DMs" (saying that made me cringe). That's not what they are on these apps for! I am not only inspired to share this through the experiences of others, but I've been that guy who would hit up ladies on FB Messenger, I've even been successful with it once or twice, but that was a very small percentage, but I reached out in each case with the understanding that I was grasping at straws, not to mention, if the person you're messaging is even remotely intelligent, they are going to assume your conversation list is filled with similar messages to many other potential targets which makes it seem much less flattering. In closing, I'm not saying it can't work. I am merely saying you should just be reasonable, don't expect success, don't accuse the people who aren't interested or don't respond of being assholes, and definitely don't put all your eggs in that basket. Get on dating apps if that's your primary objective. Hope that helps.
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