I’m a 21M and have never had a girlfriend. I have had things with girls throughout my life but they always seem to fall through and not turn into anything. I’m so sick and tired of seeing my friends and others be in happy relationships and get to do things with their significant other. Whether it’s going on dates or just going out to dinner I feel so left out from that entire aspect of life. I feel like a complete loser being 21 and never having a gf. I go to a pretty big university and there are no shortage of girls. I go out at least 1 night every weekend and get nothing out of it. I understand the game, to not give a fuck, but that shit doesn’t even work for me. Anytime I meet a girl who I’d actually like to date, they either don’t feel the same way or just stop talking to me all together.
Because I’ve never had a gf, anytime I start talking to a girl and they show me interest , I get easily attached and can’t stop thinking about them. Like I said, I understand the whole “don’t be clingy, don’t give a fuck” and I try my best to pull that off. I’m usually fine throughout the day, but when night rolls around I get insanely lonely and just want someone to lay with. I have zero intimacy in my life. I’m a good looking guy and it makes no sense to me why girls will only ever see me as a friend. I just want someone to spend time with, go on dates, have movie nights, go out with, etc...
I guess the main thing I’m trying to figure out is, how do I get these women to stop thinking of me as just a friend and a nice guy? I’m talking to a girl rn, we have a lot of the same interests and she’s super cool. If this one falls through I will just be even more lonely and have less self confidence then before. How am I supposed to be confident with zero success?
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