I (F21) have been talking to a guy (M23) from Bumble and I really like him. I think he might be the first guy I've talked to where I don't just like the idea of dating him, but him himself. He said he wanted to go slow, which is perfect for me, and so we've just been talking, every single day.
It's going to be about a month of talking by the time we can actually go out because of finals and his thesis, and clearly we both like each other. He's said how much he can't wait to meet me, but I'm nervous.
Previous dates it has simply been the anxiety of the date itself, but I feel like we're so compatible and interested in each other that I'm petrified I'm going to fuck up a good thing.
How do I translate talking every day into an in person date? How do I allow myself to just enjoy the date and not feel the pressure weighing me down and dampening the chemistry?
I feel like I've driven every date into the friendzone because my anxiety doesn't allow me to be flirty and present in the conversation and I'd really like to tackle this before we go out
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