I (M22) confessed to the girl (F23) I have been talking to that I love her. She did not say anything at first. I'd asked her again to let me know what she felt about my feelings. She told me that she was in a very bad state mentally, very exhausted and she did not want a relationship at this point or probably ever.
I completely understand her mental state and I respect her decision. But I needed to distance myself from her so I could try and supress my feelings for her. So I told her that I want to distance myself for a while and I'd be blocking her on WhatsApp. And I did so as well. My mental state was affecting my job. I couldn't risk it.
I couldn't help but message her on another app after blocking her on WhatsApp. She says that me blocking her was the last thing she wanted while she was going through so much mentally.
I feel very bad for doing so, I feel I should have asked her what to do. I did not ask, I just blocked her and left.
Now I've messaged her again on the other app. I don't think I can detach myself completely from her and it scares me so much. I keep falling back. I need help. Again.
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