Does having a sex drive or desire for female companionship if you're a man automatically represent "toxic masculinity"?
I just made a post talking about trying to get dates and someone said: "Don’t allow toxic masculinity or other toxic social expectations get the best of you," to which I replied:
I'm not really bothered by "social expectations" - I am not someone who cares what other people think much. I don't use social media and never will.
I am bothered by my basic unfulfilled biological desire to date and have sex which I was born with and can't turn off. It's been a part of me since I was 13 and it looks like it will continue my whole life. I'm pretty sure that's "normal masculinity," not "toxic masculinity."
My reply was downvoted by lots of people, but no one replied to tell me what the problem was with what I said. I don't understand what was wrong with it.
Is it "toxic masculinity" to want to experience dates or sex as a man? If so, do you need to chop off your balls before puberty to not be "toxic"?
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