We’d been dating for a month, and had just had our third date. I then found out he’s also dating someone else at the same time and acknowledged he enjoys being around both of us and that he will need to decide at some point between the two of us.
That really took me by surprise as I wasn’t thinking he was dating other people even though we were not exclusive. I told him I don’t want to continue dating. I feel like having that power dynamic where he is the one to choose would just make me feel terrible if I was the one not chosen. Basically am afraid of rejection, And also I would subconsciously be trying to make him choose me instead of me determining for myself if he’s a good choice for me. Given he’s an amazing guy, he had all but the qualities I was looking for.
But I am now wondering if I was too quick to end things. I really liked him and we really had great time each time we met. After thinking it over, I see how my insecurities and fear of rejection aided my rush decision.
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